Basic Hostel Manners

Basic Hostel Manners

When staying at a hostel and sharing room with a bunch of other travelers you don’t know, you can’t just act like you would in your own home. You may feel ‘at home’ – but you’re not…

Plus, half the purpose of sleeping in dorms is to meet some new cool people, and you don’t want to be remembered as the dude who made people tear their hair out of frustration by your obsessive noise with your plastic bags in the middle of the night, do you?

Some hostels have written rules which you have to agree with (some even make you sign a contract!), but aside from that there are some unwritten but just as important hostel manner rules which every guest should stick to and be aware of.

DON’T…

keep your lights on in the middle of the night. Everyone can’t sleep with the lights on and shouldn’t need to bring eye-masks.

… walk in and out of the room loudly all through the night.

dig for stuff in your paper and plastic bags or in any way rustle with them. Somehow this sound travels through walls, I wouldn’t be surprised if even a deaf person could hear it.

snore. Snoring people always deny that they snore, just face it and do something about it – otherwise you’re going to make some enemies where you’re staying.

Sure we should all carry ear plugs around, but they don’t help much when the bed is shaking from the snoring…

have sex. I shouldn’t even have to mention this, but people still don’t seem to understand why people don’t want to hear them having a two people party under the sheets – Get a private!

occupy the only shower for 40 minute shower first thing in the morning if it’s shared with other people. If you need a long shower, wait until everyone is out.

DO…

… keep your music on a low level. Everyone doesn’t agree to your music taste, especially not in the middle of the night.

Clean up after yourself. Would YOU like to eat from a dirty plate or use a bathroom full of dried sticky hairy bits of wax in the shower?

Pack up the night before. You can’t fully avoid it, but waking everybody up at five o clock and packing for an hour is uncalled for – prepare the night before if you have to leave early.

Be quiet. If you’re a party princess, there are party hostels you can stay at. But if it’s not (which you will soon notice), show respect and keep it quiet at night time.

I don’t really mean to be a downer by sharing these, but once you have been on the road for a while, you will really start to appreciate a nice relaxing and quiet night in the hostel.

Lastly  like I said before, if you really want to be out late, and party then you can also find the appropriate hostel for that kind of thing. By going through the reviews you find on hostelbookers or hostelworld which hostels worldwide are party friendly or not.

Hope this helps you out, and keeps you making friends not enemies while on the road!

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  • http://www.theaussienomad.com/ Chris – The Aussie Nomad

    Good post Sofia. All tips that I will take notice of once abroad.

  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ Sofia – As We Travel

    thanks for stopping by Chris – yeah these are the kinds of things you can't really PREPARE for before you leave on your trip, but at least you can now be aware of them and prepare for that :)

  • http://wanderproject.com Josh

    It's pretty sad that you've got to make a list of basic etiquette, but I've been in plenty of hostels that should use this list as wallpaper. You make an important point: Some hostels are known as “party” hostels, some are geared for people who actually sleep. You'll only make the mistake of staying in the first type once before researching your next choice a bit more thoroughly!

  • http://fastforwardacademy.com/ Mia

    Thank you for sharing this Sofia! You've shared quite a few helpful tips that I enjoyed reading just like Backpacking 101. This certainly is a great help for first time travelers.

    • http://www.hotelssydney.com.au/ Hotels Sydney

      I agree. Travelers should always remember these etiquette. There are some who doesn’t have a clue that they are really disturbing other people. I had first hand experience about this during a group trip. – Michelle

  • shaunawatson

    I found my dorky headlamp super handy for early morning departures. Easy to locate the bag packed the night before and sneak out to get ready in the bathroom. I've certainly met many people that I wish I could have directed to this post.
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  • http://www.aswetravel.com Sofia – As We Travel

    haha that sounds like a great idea with the headlamp! thanks for stopping by and saying hello! love your blog as well :)

  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ Sofia – As We Travel

    thanks mia, yeah we are trying to share as many great tips as we can on here about what we have learnt while on the road – thanks for the comment :)

  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ Sofia – As We Travel

    yeah I also agree, people SHOULD be aware of these kinds of things while in a hostel, but for some reason they lose all sense of respect and awareness for others. thanks for stopping by Josh and sharing your personal tips :)

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  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    Wish I could get into the hostel life, but it just ain't for me… Great tips though!

  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ As We Travel

    yeah I also find the dorms hard to deal with (14ppl in a room?!) – but when we travel together (with Nathan) we normally just book a 2room – gives you so much more freedom. are you more a hotel girl? ;)

  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ As We Travel

    i glad you found this helpful, thanks!

  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    Haha, I was just having this discussion with Chris, aka the Aussie Nomad,
    yesterday. I'm a weird mixture of I'll travel anywhere in the world
    (developing, dangerous, 3rd world, off the beaten track kind of places), but I'm
    such a princess when it comes to accommodations. :)

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    yeah I also find the dorms hard to deal with (14ppl in a room?!) – but
    when we travel together (with Nathan) we normally just book a 2room – gives
    you so much more freedom. are you more a hotel girl? ;)

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  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ As We Travel

    hehe yeah thats a *weird* mixture :p – but who is meant to tell you how you should travel right? – I also love to see those 3rd world place in the middle of the jungle and a tent but just as much love staying in 5star hotels and pampering myself silly! :) the world is meant for enjoying no matter what it is ;)

  • http://www.MyBeautifulAdventures.com/ GlobalButterfly

    Amen sista!!! I guess I just have found a lot of backpackers that are
    pretty judgmental and like to make me feel that I'm not a real traveler because
    I don't stay in hostels. Makes me so angry!!! :(

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  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ As We Travel

    - yeah some backpackers are funny like that – acting like this is all a competition or something?! :p wow that place looks amazing – hope you have a wonderful time! :)

  • Jase

    hey Sofia – thanks for these tips, many people should come here and need to read these! :)

  • http://www.aswetravel.com/ As We Travel

    thanks Jase – yeah it's strange how many ppl treat a 14dorm as though they own it and they are alone :p

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  • runawayjane

    Great tips! I actually did a similar post rececently about the Do's and Don'ts of Living in a Hostel http://www.runawayjane.com/the-dos-and-donts-of… so can totally relate! :)

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